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Jun 04, 2009
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starstarstarstarstar 		Boyfriend Problems Stink No Matter Who You Are!
by: Celeste

Men want a woman who is confident. Whether that confidence comes in the form of a lawyer or someone who cooks and cleans, they don't care!!! As long they can see that if by him not calling for a few days (or even a week) she is ok with it, you've got it made.

Yes, I know your hurting right now, but food is not the answer. If you had a daughter would you keep feeding her and feeding her and feeding her and feeding her.. (you get the picture), just because her boyfriend broke up with her?!

HECK NO! You'd tell her to get her dancing shoes on! You'd let her cry on your shoulder and help her move on! No man, and I MEAN NO MAN (or woman for that matter) is worth 12 pounds of excess fat and heart problems down the road! You need to get your confidence up there!!

Whether you are always having boyfriend problems, or issues with your girlfriends, it really doesn't matter. What matters is how you deal with those issues and who you are at the end of it all!

What did you learn from the relationship?

Whether it was a girlfriend or boyfriend, or regular friend).

If/WHEN he sees you next, do you want to look gaunt and overweight? (Cause he's not going to remember YOU that way!)

At the end of the day, you have to (or I hope you can) understand that the only way to get through this is by adding to your personal "best" list.

By that I mean, that you didn't turn to your stress induced food-frenzy that makes you feel worse.

If you need to revel in your boyfriend problems, then that's fine. But realize this..

Eating junk food will only make it worse. The food that is making you gain weight is only adding to fat cells, not energy cells. That's why you've gained so much.

In the meantime, check out this program to help you shed those unsightly pounds in a healthy way! (Plus: the next time you see that guy, your going to be so smokin' hot that he will be the LAST of Your Boyfriend Problems!)
Jun 04, 2009
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starstarstarstarstar 		Boyfriend Problems Stink! (And Yes! It really is "food" for thought!)
by: Celeste

And although this isn't a boyfriend problems forum, this sure is the right place to discuss the whole issue of over eating when it does happen.

The fact is that a lot of people tend to take relationship issues to heart. Literally.

When something goes wrong within that relationship, we tend to feel less worthy, less happy and it becomes a stress-induced-food-overeating-coma. Now, you mentioned that your boyfriend problems started shortly after you "hooked up".

I am going to take a leap here and assume that means when you guys "knocked boots", or "shook the linens". If that is the case, then you firstly need to stop over indulging in:

A) An unhealthy lifestyle. 12 pounds in 3 weeks is insane! Your body cannot handle that kind of over indulging, never mind your poor heart!

B) A Negative Attitude. This is only helping to feed (literally) the insecurities you are feeling right now.

and C) A spiraling out of control insatiable appetite for regret.

Now, don't get me wrong. I've had some pretty nasty relationship problems in my time. (I won't even begin to tell you of the guy I dated for 2 months then decided he "couldn't date a single mom").. Geez, the crap we hear!

But again, that has nothing to do with why we are here, and your eating habits. There are a few things you need to focus on.

Mostly, You made a decision to get physical with someone and that is a choice you made. You shouldn't regret that decision, just as I am sure he is not regretting his decision either.

Second, you can control how these relationship issues are effecting you now and how to avoid these issues in the future. You can start that by stopping all of that over eating you are doing.

To be 100% honest, over eating has absolutely nothing to do with your boyfriend problems, and 100% to do with your lack of confidence.

By over eating all you are doing is basically guaranteeing that when he does see you again, you have no self control. That is a bad thing. (A very very bad thing!)

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